How to ask your question
Focus on the relationship dynamic between you and your partner or romantic interest. Questions about mutual understanding and communication work far better than speculative guesses.
Question examples
- How do both of us feel about our relationship after our recent discussion, and where are we heading?
- What is happening with emotional closeness between us since we started living apart?
- What dynamic is forming as we prepare to move in together, and where is the tension?
What the seven positions mean
The left column reflects your conscious attitude, outward expression, and subconscious feelings. The right column reflects the other person’s conscious attitude, outward expression, and subconscious feelings. The center card shows the relationship outcome and compatibility.
Positions
- 1 Your conscious attitude
- 2 How you show the relationship outwardly
- 3 Your subconscious attitude
- 4 The other person’s conscious attitude
- 5 How they show the relationship outwardly
- 6 The other person’s subconscious attitude
- 7 Outcome of the relationship, compatibility
If outward behavior and inner feelings differ
Discrepancies between words and subconscious feelings are common in relationships. Treat the reading as an invitation for honest reflection rather than a final verdict.
Other spreads
For complex life crossroads with outside social influences, choose Celtic Cross. For quick advice on a single situation, choose One card.